March 18, 2017:
She breaks, or loses, or tosses every object she comes in contact with.
In the odds & ends drawer is a car key fob, the spare in case the master is lost or broken. She doesn't know what it is, it's of no immediate use to her, out it goes, into the trash and gone, making room for pushpins and chalk.
She drills holes in the handmade plantpots. She tears up and tosses fitted storage boxes that are needed for future moves. She steals or borrows-without-returning your accumulated lifetime of small household tools, leaving you with none, exactly when you need them.
Is she aware? She claims perfect self-knowledge. But it seems to you that she has no insight of any kind, stumbling through days breaking, or losing, or tossing every object she comes in contact with.